Episode 9

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31st May 2026

The Deal From Hell and Why I Would Do It All Over Again

Bad timing. Wrong loan product. A market that turned upside down mid-execution. And somehow, this became Brian Sutton's favorite deal.

In Episode 9 of Lessons the Hard Way, Brian sits down with co-host Sam Chillingworth to break down a Birmingham, Alabama multifamily deal that had everything going against it: bought in 2021 at near-peak pricing, repositioned from student housing to conventional during Covid-era supply chain chaos, sitting on a bridge loan while the Fed raised rates to the moon, and still sold at a profit. Small profit, but a profit.

What made it Brian's favorite was not the return. It was the people who stayed.

In this episode:

  • The Birmingham deal: bought in 2021, repositioned student housing near UAB to conventional
  • Why student housing just far enough from campus fails and what to do about it
  • Bridge loans in a rising rate environment: the mistake and the lesson
  • How the Fed rate hikes changed the deal mid-repositioning and why nobody saw it coming
  • Fighting through Covid supply chain delays, material shortages, and eviction moratoriums
  • What happens when you reset investor expectations mid-deal and do it with integrity
  • Everybody got their money back and made a little: what a win looks like in a tough market
  • Pride vs. favorite: why the deal you are most proud of is not always the most profitable
  • The three types of people in a crisis: those who stick, those who leave, those who make it worse
  • Why neighborhood quality was the single factor that separated the deals they lost from the deals they saved
  • Strong neighborhoods attract more buyers at exit: the thesis that proved itself under pressure
  • The magic carpet ride ahead: why Brian is more bullish now than ever
  • Non-negotiables: who to cut out and who to run toward when times get hard

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0:00 Cold open

0:35 Show intro

0:57 Welcome back

1:18 What full cycle means: from acquisition to disposition

2:09 The 5 to 7 year hold

3:03 Leave the meat on the bone

3:41 The setup: not my favorite going through it, actually a painful experience

4:04 Birmingham, Alabama: bought in 2021, near-peak pricing, post-Covid skyrocket

5:13 Why Birmingham

5:38 Student housing near two universities

6:32 The thesis: reposition to conventional and attract grad students and families

7:15 Bridge loan in 2021

7:33 The Fed raises rates: what nobody could have predicted happening mid-deal

7:50 The conversion process: Covid delays, materials, staffing, eviction moratorium

8:34 Fought through it: rehab, painting, upgrades, repositioning, and sold within the bridge window

9:02 The right investor partners: who you need when the market stops cooperating

9:30 No investment has zero risk: even money under your mattress has a rat problem

9:54 Investors stayed supportive: hey, we understand the market is not going your way

10:21 Why this is his favorite: struggle and strife can reshape and reform you

10:53 The workout analogy: you only grow muscle when you strain it a little

11:45 Pressure that does not break you: what this deal did to Two Waters as a team

12:14 Resetting investor expectations mid-deal: the honest conversation that saved the relationship

12:58 Everybody got their money back and made a little: what success looks like under pressure

13:19 New OREO deal incoming: the bank came back, same market, new opportunity

13:43 Relationships with banks:

14:26 Buy better properties in better areas

15:14 Neighborhood quality as the key variable

15:37 Better neighborhoods attract more buyers: why it mattered at exit

16:02 Not my favorite deal, but the one I am most proud of: the distinction

16:24 Pride is forged through going through tough things: the real takeaway

17:08 Find partners you can trust: it is always about the people

17:28 The magic carpet ride ahead

18:19 Forged by fire

18:38 Good times vs. tough times: the high fives are easy, the trenches reveal the truth

19:07 Three types of people in a crisis: those who stick, those who leave, those who create more trouble

19:48 Notice all three: the people who stayed are the ones to keep

20:12 Move away from the people who made things worse

21:08 What are your non-negotiables

21:27 Being a yes person: the lesson this downturn taught Brian about saying no

22:05 The right partners make you want to keep going

22:48 Closing

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Lessons The Hard Way
Real estate investing and life under pressure — the unfiltered truth about what really happens inside the deals.
Welcome to Lessons the Hard Way: Real Estate Investing and Life Under Pressure.
This channel is for serious real estate investors, accredited investors, and operators who want the truth about what actually happens inside real estate deals.
Most real estate content online celebrates the wins - the equity multiples, the exits, and the highlight reels.
But the most valuable lessons in investing usually come from the moments when things didn’t go according to plan.
On this podcast, we sit down with real estate operators, lenders, investors, brokers, and builders to unpack the deals that went sideways, the pressure that followed, and the lessons learned in hindsight.
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